Hear, O sons, the instruction of a father,
And give attention that you may gain understanding.—Proverbs 4:1
Dad, is it possible you’ve gotten overly committed, so involved in
your work or some away-from-home project or hobby that it is draining
your time and energy with your family? I understand, believe me, I
do....
Instead of challenging fathers to give of themselves, our cultural
system encourages them to give the stuff their increased salaries can
buy — a better education, a membership at the club, material
possessions, nicer homes, extra cars.... But what about dad himself?
And that priceless apprenticeship learned in his presence?... It’s
gotten lost in the shuffle....
C’mon, dads, let’s lead a revolt!... Let’s refuse to take our cues
from the system any longer. Let’s start saying no to more and more of
the things that pull us farther and farther away from the ones who need
us the most. Let’s remember that the greatest earthly gifts we can
provide are our presence and influence while we live and a magnificent
memory of our lives once we’re gone.
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